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We talk a lot about 'getting back to normal,' but what if 'normal' wasn't that great?

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Edmore, MI

What is one part of your 'old life' that you’re actually glad you left behind?

April 12
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Members reflected on what parts of their 'old life' they are glad to leave behind, with many sharing powerful stories of personal growth and... Read more

Members reflected on what parts of their 'old life' they are glad to leave behind, with many sharing powerful stories of personal growth and freedom. Several members described letting go of shame, self-hate, drug and alcohol use, toxic relationships, and family dynamics that no longer served them. A recurring theme was that moving forward, rather than returning to 'normal,' opened the door to a healthier, more authentic life filled with self-acceptance and gratitude.

A myHIVteam Member

I used to say that. But that's the past. I'll never look like I did when I was 40. Time has went on.

April 17
A myHIVteam Member

I don’t think I ever been normal lol I like to make my own rules

April 17
A myHIVteam Member

Drugs im glad I left behind drugs

April 15
A myHIVteam Member

He was I should have left him long before I did. Now I just wait for karma to find him..

April 15
A myHIVteam Member

Actually, I think the chance to correct our past errors has always been there; and remains even today. It may not be the chance exactly as we want; but we can always recognize it; stop doing the destructive things and make amends.

April 17

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