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Share a moment where your instinct was red-flagging a person or situation, but your logical brain overrode it.

August 14
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A myHIVteam Member

The thought that cocaine was not hurting me then the physical ramifications started .

August 15
A myHIVteam Member

@A myHIVteam Member Same here !

August 15
A myHIVteam Member

Difficult to recall the details. When I was in my 20's half a century ago; I connected with someone for play. It was a horrible experience although nothing overtly damaging. But it taught me to trust my gut and I've paid attention to that ever since.

August 15
A myHIVteam Member

Someone wants to marry me. I'm tired of being alone.

Alguien quiere casarse con migo . Ya me canse de estar solo

August 14
myHIVteam

Is ignoring gut feelings or instincts about people or situations something that comes up often when living with HIV?

Trusting yourself is actually a really powerful tool when managing life with HIV. Research suggests that the more ownership taken over a condition, the more engaged a person becomes in behaviors that support Show Full Answer

Is ignoring gut feelings or instincts about people or situations something that comes up often when living with HIV?

Trusting yourself is actually a really powerful tool when managing life with HIV. Research suggests that the more ownership taken over a condition, the more engaged a person becomes in behaviors that support a better quality of life — and self-trust is a big part of that. A myHIVteam member shared this insight: "If something doesn't seem right, I trust my gut and look for answers." Another member reflected that early on they stayed quiet even when something felt off with their doctor, but over time learned to speak up and honor those instincts.

Here are some ways to start leaning into that inner voice:

- Speak up at appointments — if something feels wrong for your body, say so
- Do your research — getting informed helps validate what your instincts are telling you
- Set boundaries — using "I" statements can help communicate your needs clearly and confidently
- Be selective — trusting your gut about who you disclose your status to is completely valid

Ignoring those instincts can sometimes lead to situations that feel unsafe or unsupportive. That inner voice exists for a reason — it's worth listening to.

August 14

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