Living with HIV while aging and being employed is High Maintenance. This type of maintenance, in itself, can be exhausting. High Maintenance lifestyle with HIV is not a lifestyle of pleasure. It's a life of duty to self to thrive the best you can with your health and wellness. It's a daily pour into oneself to maintain balance and resilience. It is not someone who cares for you; it is you who cares for yourself alone—managing your mental and physical discomfort when nobody knows. Your boss and your coworkers see you as they see the average employee. Your boss and employees may witness your shortcomings and your lack of duty, and to them it appears as low work performance. You get penalized, verbally warned, given a written warning, suspended, or fired. You get berated and belittled, and now you feel unworthy. Depression has now peaked, and anxiety has now peaked. And nobody knows that you are living with HIV, while aging and employed.
Balancing work, aging, and HIV is genuinely a lot to manage — and yes, both mental and physical challenges can come into play. Here's a breakdown of what to be aware of:
Mental Health Challenges
- Depression affects nearly 17% of people living with HIV, and anxiety affects around 23%
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