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June 1
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Living with HIV while aging and being employed is High Maintenance. This type of maintenance, in itself, can be exhausting. High Maintenance lifestyle with HIV is not a lifestyle of pleasure. It's a life of duty to self to thrive the best you can with your health and wellness. It's a daily pour into oneself to maintain balance and resilience. It is not someone who cares for you; it is you who cares for yourself alone—managing your mental and physical discomfort when nobody knows. Your boss and your coworkers see you as they see the average employee. Your boss and employees may witness your shortcomings and your lack of duty, and to them it appears as low work performance. You get penalized, verbally warned, given a written warning, suspended, or fired. You get berated and belittled, and now you feel unworthy. Depression has now peaked, and anxiety has now peaked. And nobody knows that you are living with HIV, while aging and employed.

June 1
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Balancing work, aging, and HIV is genuinely a lot to manage — and yes, both mental and physical challenges can come into play. Here's a breakdown of what to be aware of:

Mental Health Challenges
- Depression affects nearly 17% of people living with HIV, and anxiety affects around 23%
- Managing your HIV status at work Show Full Answer

Balancing work, aging, and HIV is genuinely a lot to manage — and yes, both mental and physical challenges can come into play. Here's a breakdown of what to be aware of:

Mental Health Challenges:
- Depression affects nearly 17% of people living with HIV, and anxiety affects around 23%
- Managing your HIV status at work (who to tell, when, and how) can add emotional weight
- Stigma and the pressure of maintaining a "work persona" separate from your health journey can be exhausting

Physical Health Challenges as You Age with HIV:
- Metabolic issues, including changes in how the body processes fats and sugars
- Increased risk of cardiovascular (heart and blood vessel) problems
- Bone density loss, which can lead to fractures
- Fatigue and physical weakness appearing earlier than in the general population
- Some cognitive (thinking and memory) changes The good news is there are practical ways to help maintain balance:

- Stay consistent with your antiretroviral treatment (ART) — this is the foundation of everything
- Regular check-ins with your HIV care team to catch any emerging issues early
- Physical activity and a balanced diet go a long way in supporting both body and mind
- Mental health support — whether that's a therapist, meditation, or a mental health app — is just as important as physical care
- Lean on supportive relationships, whether family, friends, or others who truly understand what living with HIV is like

One myHIVteam member shared that their way of coping with anxiety was making people laugh and spending time with loved ones — sometimes the simplest strategies make the biggest difference. 😊

Don't hesitate to talk openly with your doctor about both your physical and emotional health. You're your own best advocate, and flagging changes early — whether in mood, energy, or body — can make a real difference in staying well while living a full, working life.

June 1

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