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April 25
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A myHIVteam Member

Were stubborn don't take our own advise we need to work on it more. Its hard but not possible weren't not perfect we have flaws just do make it consistent if u can help it. I do therapy and friends learn from mistakes and other surroundings that may have been negative. Look forward..

April 26
myHIVteam

Practicing self-compassion while living with HIV is a journey, not a destination — and it looks different for everyone. Being kind to yourself is one of the most powerful things you can do, both for your emotional well-being and your physical health.

Self-acceptance can actually strengthen your relationship with your Show Full Answer

Practicing self-compassion while living with HIV is a journey, not a destination — and it looks different for everyone. Being kind to yourself is one of the most powerful things you can do, both for your emotional well-being and your physical health.

Self-acceptance can actually strengthen your relationship with your healthcare provider, keep you motivated to stay on top of your antiretroviral therapy, and improve your overall quality of life. It's not just a "nice to have" — it genuinely matters for your health.

Here are some ways to nurture self-compassion day to day:

- Quiet the inner critic — notice when you're being hard on yourself and try to respond as you would to a close friend
- Rest without guilt — if you're tired, rest. Prioritizing yourself is not selfish
- Practice gratitude — even small things count, like a warm cup of coffee or a good song
- Keep a journal — writing down three things that went well each day can shift your mindset over time
- Lean on others who get it — connecting with people who truly understand life with HIV can be deeply healing

As one myHIVteam member put it, after 18 years of living with HIV they looked back and said, *"What a wonderful human being I am. What a good person I am, with dignity and self-worth."*

That kind of self-grace is absolutely available to you too — even on the hard days. 💙

April 25
A myHIVteam Member

Barbara, on one hand, I agree with you that we are stubborn; but on the other I think that we find it difficult to give ourselves GRACE is because we have been put down by others, told we weren't worth anything and all that other BS. Also we convinced ourselves that we didn't deserve the GRACE that is so freely given. It is so freeing once we realize that we do deserve that GRACE and let it flow all over us.

May 3
A myHIVteam Member

Grace is hard for us we don’t think we deserve it

May 6

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