I never got an answer from my ex husband. For me ther was gaslighting and omission of the truth which in my book it’s just as bad. he was definitely watching gay porn and gay men always approached him. That was enough for me to know he wasn’t being truthful and therefore I couldn’t trust him. I kicked him out as soon as he was able to get back to work and stand on his feet.

I’ll give that some thought. Thank you.

If you're asking him if he's gay and he says no, that *COULD* be the truth. He could be bisexual, thus not making him gay.

I wouldn't stay with him. But if you think it can work out, then stay together? But stop asking him if he is gay?

No. But how does that work if you keep asking him if he's gay? That's insulting in some circles. Healing from that situation and moving forward with forgiveness without getting your answers is going to be hard.