Well, maybe couple counseling. Most of the time it can be really helpful. But not all relationships are monogamous. So if the only issue is that he tested poz, then your own tests seem to be the priority right now.

i would go get tested immediately my baby the same thng happen to me was pregnant with our first went to the Health Dp for one thing and they told us another on top of it my husband he gave me two stds but i guess he was born with it but his mom denies it so we dont know but i want to solve this

my question is, what is your question? It says you asked a question, but there is no question, only a statement.

It's still very hard to contract a different strand of HIV when you're undetectable.. the medicine in most cases is still really strong enough to kill any new infection it may encounter. If that wasn't true, everyone would be on different HIV medicine. Pretty much everyone takes the same small number of antivirals. Don't have sex in fear. Enjoy your husband.

JimFromWisconsin I've been undetectable for the past 33 yrs. I contracted it from my husband. We still used condoms because his strand of HIV may have been different from mines. In your opinion do you think it's ok to have unprotected sex even in marriage?