I wait until I sure I want to sleep with them. I'm kinda like EJ So those situations take time. But.....I've never seen a man or woman walk away from something they really want. Spots and all.

I just realized I didn't answer the question. Having said that I personally go into it thinking that if the guy is taking loads or accepting loads or giving loads that someone is either negative on prep or HIV positive. So the conversation doesn't come up especially if you are undetectable and the person is on prep. I'm not saying it's right I'm just saying the truth of what guys do out there.

Well in my experience when I was single and hooking up it really depended on both people's perspectives and what they were looking to get out of the hook up. I would say 90% if not more men go online to hook up. Sites like grinder and so forth are essentially sites where guys do this and I think it's understood that everyone is either positive or on prep.

I honestly don't say anything I wait to see how the relationship is going to flow and then I'll you make a decision to figure out what to do next is what you say you got that everybody runs

Some people say they’re on prep. But in reality they themselves are also positive. I wouldn’t really say much at first until the two of you get serious.