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Why is it so hard to date and find a person to accept you living with hiv I'm in my 50s just opinion/advice please thank you

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Cincinnati, OH
February 12
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Members opened up about the very real emotional and social challenges of dating while living with HIV, especially in their 50s, with many... Read more

Members opened up about the very real emotional and social challenges of dating while living with HIV, especially in their 50s, with many pointing to outdated stigma from the 1980s as a major barrier that still shapes how people react today. Several members shared painful personal experiences, including being mistreated at hospitals by medical staff who lacked basic knowledge about HIV, and facing rejection or humiliation in relationships. A recurring theme was the importance of community support, with many finding comfort in connecting online rather than in person while navigating the mental and emotional weight of living with HIV.

A myHIVteam Member

@A myHIVteam Member Ameen on that because a few people I did meet will throw it up in my face or embarrassed me around others and bring it up so I had to stay away from it because my anger got the best of me and I caught a few charges so I had do a reality check ✔️ on myself

February 17
A myHIVteam Member
February 17
A myHIVteam Member

Because they are afraid to be infected. I was in a relationship when I was informed that I was HIV+. The relationship was not the same till it was over. But what I find confusing is why those who are HIV+ do not date a person that is HIV+. I tried HIV+ dating sites with very limited replies.

March 2
A myHIVteam Member

@A myHIVteam Member omg I love that story 😆🤑👏👏👏

February 18
A myHIVteam Member

i have been searching for 4 years already

February 17

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