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Geneva, IL

Does someone you know strike you fancy? Is there someone on your radar? Was there someone in your past that you think about often?

May 14, 2025
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Members opened up about their past and present crushes, ranging from childhood realizations to fantasy celebrities to unreciprocated feelings... Read more

Members opened up about their past and present crushes, ranging from childhood realizations to fantasy celebrities to unreciprocated feelings for friends or coworkers, with many sharing the bittersweet humor and vulnerability of longing for someone they know they can't have. Several members described how they've learned to manage crushes over time, whether by ignoring feelings that won't lead anywhere, finding something attractive in everyone they meet, or choosing to focus on moving forward after loss or heartbreak. A recurring theme was the hope that the right person will eventually come along, balanced with the wisdom that sometimes letting go and embracing what's next is the healthiest path forward.

A myHIVteam Member

Heath Ledger

May 14, 2025
A myHIVteam Member

My realistic crush.I definitely do have a crush on someone. I have known this person for 3 years. We met at work. He knows I’m Gay. He’s not. We are the polar opposites. I’m a getting up there in age Gay Mormon. I live a clean lifestyle. Where he’s now 30 I met him when he was 27. He’s tattooed and an alcoholic and does some drugs. We don’t see each other anymore since I’m in California and he’s in Washington State. I offered to fly him out here. He got a new job. And didn’t want to jeopardize it. He knows I like him a lot. Yes, there’s other people out there that would check most of the boxes that have similarities. But my mind just wants him.

May 14, 2025 (edited)
A myHIVteam Member

Yes, I have a list of them too big to share. I'm still waiting fir the dickarette patch to come out.

May 14, 2025
A myHIVteam Member

Babyyy I'm looking forward to the future because if they're an ex it's definitely for a reason. NEXT ❗🤣

May 19, 2025
A myHIVteam Member

I guess I've just become an old perv bc I seem to be crushin on anything that walks upright (or erect). My taste will vacillate from one moment to the next but I manage to find at least one desirable attribute in everybody. Perhaps I'm just a naughty little slut with no respect for standards. That's my number on the public restroom stall!

May 15, 2025

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