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When is a good time to let family and friends know your current HIV status or do you just keep it to yourself?

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Atlanta, GA

I’m currently not sharing my status at the moment; this information is very difficult to obtain let alone sharing with people that are so judge mental nowadays!

January 3, 2024
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Members shared thoughtful perspectives on when and whether to disclose an HIV status to family and friends, with the overall message being... Read more

Members shared thoughtful perspectives on when and whether to disclose an HIV status to family and friends, with the overall message being that disclosure is a deeply personal choice made on your own timeline. Several members described starting with close family or a trusted few, while one member shared that becoming more open over time helped reduce personal stigma, and others cautioned that once shared, it cannot be taken back. A recurring theme was that potential partners should be told, but beyond that, members encouraged protecting your peace and only sharing when you feel safe and ready.

A myHIVteam Member

I let my sister know immediately when i was awaiting test then looped my mom probably two weeks later after I got my nerve together then sat them down together when I was for sure as far as anyone else it's not their business I'm single so no partner to tell as yet but will if I come to that bridge. ❤️

January 8, 2024
A myHIVteam Member

Well..... You can't unring a bell. When you are ready and can handle their reaction. HIV isn't a death sentence so there's no rush like it used to be.

January 5, 2024
A myHIVteam Member

I've been thinking about being open about my status but it's hard I know not everyone will like it and the unknown is what's scary.

January 5, 2024
A myHIVteam Member

I told my immediate family right away. I told a few friends.

January 3, 2024
A myHIVteam Member

That's a by person basis.

January 3, 2024

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