Well. ....You got to get him tested. And that's out of your control. So release that. Here's the truth. Sometimes they know and just don't tell you. For a variety of reasons. All you can do is encourage him. Blame stigma or anything. I'm in that situation and all u can do is pray . I told my friend I'll play around until u go to the hospital. Then all bets are off.

Hey thank you I know one thing my husband never did have it cuz he's already got tested four or five months ago he did not have it then I just don't know now do you know where they might have it over the counter

First off, you can't make someone do anything.
What you need to start doing is sitting down, and having a candid conversation. Tell him of your concerns. It's possible he already knew he had HIV and just didn't tell you. If he doesn't want to go in for a test, they do have over the counter test I believe now, get one of them. The first step though is sitting down and having a long conversation with each other.

No it sure won't. I think he's taking them, tho he's not telling me that he is

@A myHIVteam Member avoiding meds won't help him.

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