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A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Princeton, WV

Okay here's my question I posted something earlier in the week about stress and what would you do with the people that causes the stress got a lot of answers now the person who's causing the stress is my mom she's one of those people that thinks she knows it all because she's 84 years old treats me like a child even though I'm turning 60 in a few days she is also in the stages of early dementia but she knows what she's doing and she knows what she's saying there's a lot of family history there… read more

March 10, 2023
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Members connected warmly over the challenge of managing a stressful relationship with an aging parent, especially one showing early signs of... Read more

Members connected warmly over the challenge of managing a stressful relationship with an aging parent, especially one showing early signs of dementia, while also caring for their own mental health. Several members shared that setting boundaries, open honest conversations, and leaning on prayer or caregiver support groups helped them cope, while others gently encouraged cherishing the time still available. A recurring theme was the emotional complexity of the situation, balancing personal peace and self-care with love, respect, and the reality that parents won't always be here.

A myHIVteam Member

My partner, his mom ,....died of dementia. He moved in with both parents to take care of them to their dying days and to this day never regrets a second of that decision. Please see if you can surround yourself with the support group of caretakers or specifically caretakers who take care of people suffering from dementia. You need to be strong because your mom needs you right now.

March 10, 2023 (edited)
A myHIVteam Member

I can't speak for everybody I can speak for myself my mom's is 82 years old and she been through a lot with me and continue to love me unconditionally when others wouldn't she's older now she do things that upset me that in the end of the day that's my mom's was always there for me when I had nobody else and I will always be there for her

May 2, 2023
A myHIVteam Member

Everyone's situation with their parents is different. I was just raised to honor and respect my parents but at the same time I totally understand your situation Ron... God bless and have strength in your journey.

March 11, 2023 (edited)
A myHIVteam Member

Ron, I know this is probably going to seem too obvious and maybe somebody else has already said the same thing, but I think the best approach is to tell your mother that you would like to talk to her and express your feelings honestly and openly. See where that conversation goes. And remember you are allowed to set boundaries.

March 10, 2023
A myHIVteam Member

...all i can say is cherish the moments...💫💫💫💫💥

March 10, 2023

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