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What is one thing that you found most troubling since being diagnosed?

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Winston Salem, NC

What’s types of things have you struggling with since you were diagnosed?

December 20, 2022
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Members opened up about what has been most troubling since their HIV diagnosis, with stigma, disclosure, and mental health rising to the top... Read more

Members opened up about what has been most troubling since their HIV diagnosis, with stigma, disclosure, and mental health rising to the top as the heaviest burdens. Several members described painful experiences of family rejection, betrayal by partners, and the fear of revealing their status in romantic relationships, while others highlighted the ongoing struggle with depression, isolation, and limited mental health resources. A recurring theme was the deep longing for connection and acceptance, with many finding comfort in this community as one of the few safe spaces to speak openly about their experiences.

A myHIVteam Member

Revealing my status to family and loved ones. It was as if a slice of death. Especially in potentially romantic relationships.

August 23, 2023
A myHIVteam Member

Dating

May 18, 2023
A myHIVteam Member

Mental health and acceptance. When I told my family my status, they immediately wanted nothing to do with me. My mother even went so far as to get on a plan to pre-pay for a burial plot and casket for me. I told them my status in 1992 when I found out. Anyway, since then, my mental health has suffered, so trying to work on that, but it's hard since resources are so limited.

December 28, 2022
A myHIVteam Member

Taking more meds. I really hate taking meds😒

December 27, 2022
A myHIVteam Member

The world is not as empathetic as I believed

March 10, 2024

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