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Has HIV, or pandemic changed attitudes?

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Atlanta, GA

Has becoming infected with HIV, and the Corona pandemic, affected your attitude toward persons receiving federal assistance? Housing, food stamps, med/drug help, unemployment, etc. Do we still look upon those seeking aid as "other people"? I now know things can change INSTANTLY, regardless of TODAY'S wellbeing, through no fault of our own! Anxiously awaiting feedback!

November 16, 2020
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Members reflected on how living with HIV and experiencing the COVID-19 pandemic has deepened their empathy for people needing federal... Read more

Members reflected on how living with HIV and experiencing the COVID-19 pandemic has deepened their empathy for people needing federal assistance, with many sharing that catastrophic health events can happen to anyone instantly and without warning. Several members emphasized the importance of not judging others, noting that invisible illnesses like HIV taught them that you cannot assess someone's need by appearance alone, and many expressed gratitude for programs that helped them survive when medication or income became unaffordable. A recurring theme was the belief that compassion should guide how we view people seeking help, whether for housing, food, medications, or mental health support, because life-altering circumstances are impartial and can affect anyone regardless of how well they are doing today.

A myHIVteam Member

We have people with mental illness, Debilitating disease some who have been in the system for long periods of time who depend on help. We need compassion and programs to help people transition to better things.

November 16, 2020
A myHIVteam Member

No it hasn't changed. My attitude is, if you've worked and are not working now and need the help, then take it. That's what it's there for.
Now, if you've never worked a day, hell even an hour on the clock, and you mooch off the system, you should be kicked off assistance, PERIOD!

November 16, 2020
A myHIVteam Member

Working with young men that had been homeless is difficult because of a label. Then there are those fully capable begging for change. If offered food they refuse, Soup Kitchens, they know about them. Then there's a beggar that paid her daughter's full university that when asked where she was working 'Depends on if security boots us from in front of the coffee shop or drug store.
I tend to go by a Golden Standard 'Judge not, lest ye be judged'

November 16, 2020
A myHIVteam Member

Yesterday I was at the grocer, a young man asked if he could help in any way. 'I could tell by your body language that you are a decent guy.
I have seen people being quite rude, and others remembering basic human values.
What threw me off. was 4 seniors masks off standing around comparing joint replacements. ,
In the malls, I find the compliance on mask wearing with youth is about 90% there is the 'me' generation that uses them to hold up chins or nostrils.

November 16, 2020
A myHIVteam Member

My thoughts were, whether one worked or not, when one encounters fatal illnesses, injuries that cause disability, or forced liife changes that can happen overnight, he/she should not be made to feel "'less than" because of that need. Asked in the hope that we consciously adopt acceptance of the need, and not the how, when or WHY the need. Catastrophic situations are impartial! Thank you all for your sincere input to my question!
Please excuse errors...still feeling effects of medication.

November 24, 2020

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