I contracted HIV to the girl I lost my virginity with and married and spent 13 years together. The thought of telling the first woman I met was really daunting but she was fine about it, as was the next, and the next and the next who I’m still with.

I always used condoms with my negative partners until the news came out that U = U and I felt I could truly relax again when having sex.

Im with my fiance who is negative he is very supportive

In the beginning, if they run , they run. If they stay they stay. But they know.

It's nothing new to me... My partner that I'm with now since November 23 was actually a rule break for me. After I got burned, I vowed I would never again take any interest in anyone who was not HIV+... Little did I know that several years later, a friend from the long-long ago in my life would come back into my life, and would make me able to see that I can actually love again.