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How Much Of An Impact Do You Think That You Can Make On Someone Who Is Newly Diagnosed Or Is High Risk For Contracting HIV?

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Phoenix, AZ
March 12, 2017
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Members reflected on the question of how much impact they can have on someone newly diagnosed with HIV, with the consensus being that while... Read more

Members reflected on the question of how much impact they can have on someone newly diagnosed with HIV, with the consensus being that while not everyone will be ready to listen immediately, offering support and sharing lived experience plants seeds that may help someone later, even if you reach just one person. Several members with 20-30+ years of experience emphasized the importance of being empathic, authentic, and available—whether through phone numbers exchanged at doctor's offices, social media connections, or volunteer work—while educating others that an HIV diagnosis is not the end but rather a new beginning with real hope for a full life. A recurring theme was that visibility and openness about one's own journey, despite the risk of stigma or rejection, can profoundly affect those who are hiding, struggling, or contemplating their next steps, proving that survival and thriving are possible.

A myHIVteam Member

I would hope that I could make some impact. I would be authentic, approachable, a good listener, compassionate, an educator and friend. Weep when they weeped. Rejoiced when they rejoiced.

March 12, 2017
A myHIVteam Member

Those of us who have been around for thirty years with it can teach them that they can live! Yes there's some changes but you can build a life. Also it didn't have to define you!!

March 12, 2017
A myHIVteam Member

I try to reach out, but the issue is how open is the person to accept it? One of my young friends was not dealing with the diagnosis well and I kept trying to normalize his life. My very best life long friend all the mattered was I try to get through it and she would always love me. My ling time friend in Vancouver gave me a hug and joked about at least he knew that I was alive and still capable of making him smile.

March 12, 2017
A myHIVteam Member

That's the exact same thing I told my mother when she found out about the book I wrote.

March 22, 2017
A myHIVteam Member

Hello sir: In response to what Ghostplant08 said, some people will never care about your story or the fact that you have endured, but if you reach just one person, you have helped save a life.

March 22, 2017

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