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A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
New Brunswick, NJ

I’m getting bored sexually so decided to try fisting . I will say it dosent hurt as much as I thought. However it’s very hard to have the guy get his whole arm up there. I know lots of lube gloves and relaxing plus poppers helps lol. Anyone ever tried this?

May 31
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Members responded to a question about fisting with a mix of personal experiences, safety tips, and open discussion about sexual exploration in... Read more

Members responded to a question about fisting with a mix of personal experiences, safety tips, and open discussion about sexual exploration in the HIV community. Several members shared practical advice including using fisting-specific lube, going slowly, trusting your partner, cleaning out beforehand, and using gloves to protect against sharp nails. A recurring theme was mutual respect for different comfort levels, with many emphasizing that patience, communication, and an experienced partner are the most important factors for a safe and enjoyable experience.

A myHIVteam Member

@A myHIVteam Member is correct, we ARE more than just HIV+. We are still people with needs. Some people may find this subject appalling, some may find it interesting. The main thing this site is for is EDUCATING. I really don't care if women talk about their menstrual issues or guys talking about fisting, if you don't know, then you don't know, and you shouldn't be afraid to ask questions on here. It may help someone else who is too afraid to ask the same thing. The more educated we are about our bodies and how to handle certain situations is always the safer way to handle things. if someone doesn't like the topic, they have a mouse that they can keep on scrolling with.

June 1
A myHIVteam Member

Jim this site has to be more than talking about HIV over and over again lol. I think we all need a break sometime and discuss other things that people might be interested in. Such as Luis dog pics and music videos from happy days even though he’s going through a tough time and is not posting as much. We are more than just HIV. We are human beings that want to experience our sexuality and of course talking about HIV is the main topic and it should be. But sometimes I need a break from T cells and viral load or I will go crazy lol. Still love you though 😉

June 1 (edited)
A myHIVteam Member

Indeed...breathe..it takes skills.

May 31
A myHIVteam Member

@A myHIVteam Member There is some evidence to support that poppers CAN have some very detrimental effects, however it is generally regarded that the statistically, your HIV meds are far more likely to cause some sort of organ failure, and they're still regarded as being safe. Needless to say, while it is technically possible, it is highly unlikely.

June 10
A myHIVteam Member

😂🤣😅👊✊️👊✊️🤛

May 31

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