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We all know the 'one pill a day' routine, but the real work happens in our heads and hearts. Let’s talk about the invisible journey. What is a strength, a boundary, or a personal growth moment you’ve had that doesn't show up on a lab report?

April 9
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Members reflected on what their HIV journey looks like beyond lab results, sharing deeply personal stories of fear, acceptance, and growth... Read more

Members reflected on what their HIV journey looks like beyond lab results, sharing deeply personal stories of fear, acceptance, and growth that no blood test can capture. Several members described an initial shock at their diagnosis followed by a meaningful transformation, including quitting smoking, eating healthier, walking more, and leaning on the support of family and partners. A recurring theme was that stigma remains a heavy burden, but many found liberation through community, strong support systems, and a shift in perspective that allowed them to focus on truly living their lives.

A myHIVteam Member

@A myHIVteam Member indeed. Although how we handle stress probably unrelated to our HIV. That we're stressed, or not, we bring onto ourselves largely. An option we all have is to play the cards we were dealt the best we can; and let the rest unfold as it will.

April 10
A myHIVteam Member

In the beginning, I totally freaked out about my positive results. Then I got the paperwork in triplicate and had a funeral for my negative self. After that, I accepted having to be positive all the time. It's like I was reborn. Now, almost 10 years into it, I am way healthier, I quit smoking after 38 years and I'm walking more.
I'm kinda glad I was reborn positive because now I'm actually doing awesome.

I'm celebrating rebirth on April 13th in the Philippines with my fiance of 11 years.

April 10
A myHIVteam Member

True @A myHIVteam Member. And yet, we should be the most desirable partners. Dozens of partner studies around the world has proven that a poz mate with a well controlled viral load is not going to infect his (or her) sex partner(s). We should be the most desirable mates not the one suffering stigma.

April 11
A myHIVteam Member

True stigma will probably be around for decades decades and because of that more people will become positive.There is medical,religious,economic and moral stigma with this.So yes we feel it all around the board just not self inflicted.This is the reality of the world we live in

April 11
A myHIVteam Member

That stigma still exist

April 10

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