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I was approached by a very good looking guy online a few months ago on the gay dating App called Scruff. I am not actively looking for a partner. However, this guy is so attractive, I am tempted to travel the 130 miles to meet him.. Thats a round trip of 260 miles involving 2 Train journeys outbound and 2 Trains homebound. He has video called me on Whattsapp a number of times, and appears to be genuine. He insists he's looking for a long term partner and is calling me darling and sweetheart… read more
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Members weighed in on whether it's worth traveling to meet a potential long-distance partner found on a dating app, with most encouraging the... Read more
I would, but I'd rather meet at a halfway point that way we're both traveling and the territory is neutral. 🤷🏾♀️
@A myHIVteam Member Thats very sound advice. Im holding a hotel at $80 for Wednesday to hopefully meet him and stay overnight, as the journey is long and tiring. I havent heard back from him regarding this date, but the hotel reservation can be cancelled without penalties if I dont hear back from him.
I'd go. He made his decision regarding your status. His reasons for not wanting to travel at this time seems reasonable. I wouldn't second guess it. I'm in a situation with someone that accepted it right off. He younger than me and very bi sexual. I was thinking the same thing you are thinking now. So far so good. Don't let HIV stop you from living your life.
Hey love, My Holiday tree with purple and disco ball ornaments is popular. I have 7 events of people coming over the next 6 weeks...so I got the most horrible ghastly tree apron , Grinch fur lime, matches the bloody pink ya? We do Hollywood Jesus lovin here baby. OMG its so awful I love it!! Thats not my tree, just the skirt pic..and when you fall in love with your new dude, you can say you have a lovely twisted Hollywood friend who will come over next Christmas for a visit
I've had long-distance before, one overseas LA-Paris, and I went to live and work there, and one LA-Chicago that was easier and I went there for a year too. Neither lasted over a year after that. At this stage in life I'd consider a move if things look long-range. I live in Long Beach now, which has a small HIV community that I don't find I have much in common with, but 25 miles north in Hollywood, there are tons of HIV social and event groups, so just a 1-hour train ride. I find they'd rather live on the beach with me. I love it here but that's not a prerequisite. Being more mature now, relationships have more success and I would consider getting out of trumpland. It all depends but its a yes for me and I encourage you to have some later-life adventure! xo
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