I am new to dating scene… I am nervous to disclose to someone new in fear of acceptance. I dont want everyone to know … but how do you decide to disclose? I am scared
I put myself in the person’s shoes, I would want to know I wish I had a choice in if I wanted to have sex with an infected person, though I am undetectable I give people the choice to decide whether to date me or not, I would rather know that before any emotional connection, but it wasn’t until I was ready to deal with the rejection that is surely to come. Use discernment and if you feel that someone will be ugly don’t tell them ghost them 😊 mostly be careful and happy 💗
Thats hard to answer. I'd disclose before sex for a "partner". I'd take a different approach for someone I was interested in dating.
It's completely normal to feel nervous about disclosure. The timing of when to disclose is a personal choice - some people prefer to share before the first date, while others wait until things become more serious. Many find it helpful to wait until their HIV is fully under control, as this allows them to speak from a Show Full Answer
Evan you said it all, in as much you know your intentions fit someone.. You have to disclose before sex.. It's just not right.
I am also new here and if I you don't mind Eric.. Can I add you up