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A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭

I’m Scared to go to a in person Support Group.
Perhaps it just further validated the diagnosis.
I know I need to talk. To vent.
But I’m just scared.

August 3, 2025
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A myHIVteam Member

I go to Lunch Positive where a free lunch is provided from 1pm till 3pm Tuesdays and Fridays. Its ok to chat with people there, but I had a bad experience when a guy asked me to have a Coffee with him afterwards, so in future I will only have the Lunch and not get involved witb any of the guys there.

August 11, 2025
A myHIVteam Member

It is true if those feelings will arise. But validation will only help you digest your diagnosis. HIV is only a diagnosis is not who you are and to be happy you need to move on from this. Keep pushing forward. It’s OK to fill down and have moments, but you are not HIV.

August 4, 2025
myHIVteam

It's completely normal to feel scared about attending an in-person support group. Many people experience similar fears and concerns about facing their diagnosis. Remember that support groups can actually help improve treatment outcomes and quality of life for people with HIV.

The benefit of support groups is connecting Show Full Answer

It's completely normal to feel scared about attending an in-person support group. Many people experience similar fears and concerns about facing their diagnosis. Remember that support groups can actually help improve treatment outcomes and quality of life for people with HIV.

The benefit of support groups is connecting with others who truly understand what you're going through - something that even well-meaning friends and family may not fully grasp. One step you can take is talking to your healthcare provider about finding the right group for you. Many HIV healthcare centers host their own support groups, which can provide a safe, comfortable environment. You can also:

• Start slowly - maybe just observe first
• Bring a trusted friend or family member for support
• Remember everyone there has shared similar feelings
• Know you can leave at any time if you feel overwhelmed

The fear you're feeling is valid, but don't let it stop you from getting the emotional support that could really help your journey.

August 3, 2025

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