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I feel as if Im a horrible guy, Ive had STI infections more than I care to admit, now Im taking meds for HSV infection, still waiting on lab

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Tacoma, WA
January 19, 2025
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Members warmly welcomed someone feeling shame about having HSV alongside HIV, reassuring them that their life is far from over and that many... Read more

Members warmly welcomed someone feeling shame about having HSV alongside HIV, reassuring them that their life is far from over and that many in the community have faced similar experiences. Several members shared that HSV is manageable with medication, with one member noting they have been outbreak-free for 30 years on daily Acyclovir, and others encouraging asking a doctor about long-term preventive treatment. A recurring theme was self-compassion, following medical guidance, and leaning on the community for support.

A myHIVteam Member

First and foremost good morning and welcome to our family. Here we do not judge and you are safe to share your story. Being sexually active is not a bad thing. In fact a lot of us here would love to be physical again with someone because HIV does hinder that. But being that you are do not beat yourself up about it. Having said that though you must be safe because as you just found out there are other things other than HIV that you need to be careful about. Perhaps once you get all these conditions treated going forward when you have sex you can be a little bit more aware and careful, for the two of you. Welcome aboard. 🌈❤️👍

January 19, 2025
A myHIVteam Member

I have it I take the same medicine when I have outbreaks trust me it's something but it'll get better.

January 20, 2025
A myHIVteam Member

I believe there is an oral pill and also a topical ointment. Please call your doctor and make sure that he's giving you both for treatment. Do not engage in sex until it's cleared up...it's all good...be easy on yourself🌈🌈🌈👍🙏♥️

January 20, 2025 (edited)
A myHIVteam Member

You don't have to feel horrible, we all have a story to tell
So go ahead and cheer up!

No debes sentirte horrible, todos tenemos una historia que contar
Así que adelante y ánimos !

January 19, 2025
myHIVteam

It's important to remember that having STIs or HSV doesn't define your worth as a person. You're taking the right steps by seeking treatment and waiting on lab results. If you're also concerned about HIV, staying informed and proactive is key. Antiviral medications for HSV and consistent use of protection can help manage Show Full Answer

It's important to remember that having STIs or HSV doesn't define your worth as a person. You're taking the right steps by seeking treatment and waiting on lab results. If you're also concerned about HIV, staying informed and proactive is key. Antiviral medications for HSV and consistent use of protection can help manage and reduce risks. Be kind to yourself—you're taking responsibility for your health, and that's commendable.

January 19, 2025

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