@A myHIVteam Member You may find that person here, you never know. The best part is you no longer have to disclose your status because we all come with the same issue.
If both of you are undetectable, you can have meaningful sex without fear of reinfection. Hoping you good fortune on your journey finding the love of your life whether it be here or elsewhere.
If you happen to find someone elsewhere, the time to disclose is entirely up to you and how you feel the relationship is progressing. Only you will know when the right time. Usually when the relationship starts to become more intimate. Even if you use some form of protection, in your mind there will be doubt, don't take that risk and instead be honest. Prepare yourself for rejection and mostly, never give up on pursuing what makes you happy. Aloha! John