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Geneva, IL

Whether we have setbacks or not, we all have accomplishments ... some big or small.
What are some of yours?

June 10, 2024
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Members responded to the question about lifetime accomplishments with deeply personal and inspiring stories that covered a wide range of... Read more

Members responded to the question about lifetime accomplishments with deeply personal and inspiring stories that covered a wide range of triumphs. Several members shared milestones like getting sober, earning nursing degrees later in life, publishing books, completing military service, and living openly as gay men for decades, with many pointing to simply surviving and thriving with HIV as their greatest achievement. A recurring theme was that accomplishments do not have to be grand to matter, and that resilience, self-advocacy, and choosing to keep going in the face of illness, stigma, or hardship are worthy of real pride.

A myHIVteam Member

Encouraged myself to go back and get my g.e.d. praying to do well on the real tests. Next semester

June 10, 2024
A myHIVteam Member

Often, when an elderly person with deficits is moved to a new location, their ability to compensate in a familiar environment is lost. Family will say the person "wasn't like this at home." And they are right, loss of a familiar environment often precipitates a crisis of self... a "Who am I?" moment.

That is why moving to an assisted living facility is better done when a person can still adjust and feel like it is their choice. They are not being moved against their will. (But, who does that?!). Most often, loved ones become injured at home (break a hip). Are hospitalized. Then they are moved directly into a nursing home. Recovery of self is difficult under those circumstances. Glad you are caring for your father @A myHIVteam Member. I did the same.❤️

June 13, 2024 (edited)
A myHIVteam Member

So glad I've obtained 4 degrees and enjoying them. One written and produced play of mine focusing on HIV secrecy and another in the making.

June 10, 2024
A myHIVteam Member

I finished writing a memoir this year which I'm very proud of and hope to get it published.

June 10, 2024
A myHIVteam Member

Wow that's a good question. I'm glad I asked it 😜🙃🤗
On a more serious note , I think living life with HIV is my biggest accomplishment. Having done more than survive this virus I am living it. Every day is a challenge but every day is a new opportunity to do something fabulous and memorable. I think most of us here should give ourselves a good pat on the back. 🙏❤️

June 10, 2024

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