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What happens here when you die?

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Wailuku, Maui, Hawaii

The camaraderie and relationship building created here on this platform has influenced me into asking this question.
There are some team members, from long ago, that never drop in to visit or check in, based on my observations.
If the person dies, how would the persons team know they had passed? What would you do when your time arrives? Should we partner up here and have one or the other person share the sad news? Thoughts? Suggestions? Answers?

October 24, 2023
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Members explored a deeply meaningful question about what happens within the community when someone passes away, touching on both the digital... Read more

Members explored a deeply meaningful question about what happens within the community when someone passes away, touching on both the digital reality of online friendships and the emotional weight of losing a teammate who may have kept their HIV status private from family. Several members shared personal grief, including losing a close friend without knowing until much later, and offered practical steps like exchanging phone numbers within trusted groups, preparing a will, documenting end-of-life wishes, and keeping a book of passwords for a trusted contact. A recurring theme was the isolation many members face due to HIV stigma, paired with a powerful offer of support from others who want no one to feel alone.

A myHIVteam Member

Hmmm... @A myHIVteam Member. I'm going to have to review, because that wasn't my intention. I have an 88yr old partner, and when he is gone, I will be by myself. So, I am currently only seeing that far, but will have to figure out what else I will need not to wind up mummified in my house.

October 26, 2023
A myHIVteam Member

You can let the rest of the team know that person is sick so they know that person is dieing and the team can console the person so he won’t feel along

October 28, 2023
A myHIVteam Member

Yes: "OJ Did it!"

October 25, 2023
A myHIVteam Member

🤣😀🤗

October 25, 2023
A myHIVteam Member

Well, there are those who have passed and we found out later. So a group of us exchange numbers. Just in case., One of us is sick so that the other can tell the group. If you have faith and trust in someone in the group,.. you may want to exchange information so that somebody knows what's happening..

December 9, 2023 (edited)

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