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Members reflected deeply on the question of whether they would relive their lives, with many expressing gratitude for how their experiences,... Read more

Members reflected deeply on the question of whether they would relive their lives, with many expressing gratitude for how their experiences, including living with HIV, shaped them into stronger and more resilient people. Several members shared specific regrets they would change if possible, such as finishing school, protecting themselves from deliberate infection, taking more risks in relationships, or being present for loved ones who have passed, while emphasizing that even painful lessons contributed to their growth. A recurring theme was the bittersweet recognition that changing the past might mean losing the good things that came from hardship, including beloved children, meaningful relationships, and the wisdom and strength gained through surviving difficult times.