So I have never been with another person who is positive ever. So what I wanted to ask was has anyone else? Also how was it? I hope this does not offend anyone, that is not my intention at all. Obviously HIV does not define anyone at all!! I am just asking for other's experience is all. I'm thinking about returning to dating,just thinking lol. In the past other's used my illness as a weapon towards me. Obviously these were not nice people lol. I just want to choose wiser and thinking maybe it's… read more
Hi @A myHIVteam Member
I think it’s different in the straight community, but recently I’ve come out to more people as POZ with almost no issues.
Tell people I’m undetectable = untransmittable which starts the conversation in a good note. If they don’t know that that means I explain.
I also do this early on in the conversation so nobody gets real invested before they find out.
I've dated both but for me it helps if the person is educated about hiv. I found it no fun to worry about someone else's health plus a few surprised and disgusted me with thier behavior! You will find jerks on both sides regardless of the status. For me an educated person who practices safe sex is much more satisfying 😍
I never dated anyone who's also HIV positive
It's kind of hard for me because I live in California where it's not a lot of straight people who have hiv. Knowing that I cannot travel very far (because I don't drive), I can't really go to San Francisco where there is a lot. And shoot, HIV dating app want their money and I'm broke
Thanks again and I am always upfront myself about being positive and I've also have educated many people on U=U which is always interesting and Idk if its different for quote unquote straight people lol I think we are all the same I am actually bi myself I just prefer to be in a commitmented relationship with a man is all so maybe I need to put Im bi🤷♀️ Lol everyone Thanks again and have a great day😊😊😊 Sorry about my punctuation or shall I say lack of it🤣🤣
Thanks all and yes an educated person is definitely my preference and absolutely it shouldn't matter at all my partner's status😊😊 I was just curious all Thanks I love to hear other's experience's