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If You Had One Chance To Do One Thing Over Again,.. What Would It Be?

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Geneva, IL

I was just thinking back and perhaps thinking forward, of what I would have done......?
And then I thought, but what if....?

June 29, 2021
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Members reflected on the pivotal moments they wish they could change, with the most common regret being unprotected sex that led to HIV... Read more

Members reflected on the pivotal moments they wish they could change, with the most common regret being unprotected sex that led to HIV infection, often stemming from trust, youthfulness, or substance use that clouded judgment. Several members shared deep wishes around education, expressing regret for not completing their studies or taking advantage of academic opportunities when distracted by relationships, drugs, or difficult home lives. A recurring theme was the weight of past choices made during vulnerable moments, yet many members also acknowledged that mistakes shaped who they became, emphasizing the importance of moving forward without self-blame and focusing on helping others through their experiences.

A myHIVteam Member

Wow! It would be to say no we''re still using condoms until we're married.

See I was using sex safely but one say my fiancee said" Baby we're about to be married why are we still using condoms?" Yes this is the moment I would like to change. Instead off going along I should of said" Honey we are not married yet and another couple of months won't hurt! Smh but through this disease I've help others find Salvation. The very people who were speaking death of me are no longer breathing.. Yes God is in control.

June 29, 2021
A myHIVteam Member

They say to not have any regrets, but I hate to say I do. I wish I could have done things differently now!! I was so naive, and easily gave my trust to people.

June 30, 2021
A myHIVteam Member

Wow what a question. I guess for the sake of not writing g a book. I would have continued my studies. @A myHIVteam Member. Take comfort in knowing you did your best and your husband is in a much more peaceful place. Hold on to tbe memories. And in case you didn't know, I love you as I do everyone and there's nothing you can do about it. Be encouraged and don't beat yourself up.

June 29, 2021
A myHIVteam Member

I would have just said no to hard drugs. I made lots of mistakes but it's hard to choose one because lots of those mistakes made me a good person in the end.

June 29, 2021
A myHIVteam Member

Stay thinking positive. You don't owe anyone nothing if you're being safe and smart.🤗

September 10, 2021

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