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HELP!!relationship Advice Like Stat Pretty Please.
A myHIVteam Member asked a question πŸ’­

y'all know i spent time in a behaveriol health unit. I met a man there I instantly connected with. It was weird its like ivw alwaya known him. Lets call Him "W."

We kept in touch after the hospital and he came out as bi. His GF was using him for cash, cheating on him daily. Lied about being pregnant. The cheating lead to him coming to the hospital after a drinking bender.

Today he told me he likes me, I like "W" too. Im not sure what to do. Im moving to Florida this month. He lives in… read more

posted June 6, 2021
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Girl I will make this very clear πŸ€—πŸ’‹..it does not matter where you met him or Miss W as you call him. The fact of the matter is he's confused. I'm telling you from personal experience because I had a bisexual married man.. and gir..l I lost 8 years of my lifeπŸ€ͺ. It was a roller coaster and only I was to blame because he was still in a relationship and I should have known better. I was not a boy I was a full grown man and I knew better.... So πŸ€—πŸ‘...go to Florida ..pack your bags and don't look back. Enjoy sweetheart πŸ’™πŸ’›πŸ§‘πŸ§‘πŸ’šπŸ€—πŸŒˆπŸ’‹

posted June 7, 2021
A myHIVteam Member

1) Go to Florida. There is his story, her story and the truth. Do you really need that ?

2) Go to Florida and check back with him in a year. You need to give yourself time to settle. He needs time to heal , come to terms with being bisexual and sober up. If you meet him, make sure he is really ready for a commitment.

3.) Go to Florida and fall for him, sink line and sinker. He moves in with you and brings his drama with him.

4) Go to Florida and get settled in on a place, job, if you work, meet new friends, and meet someone with less drama.βœ“

These are suggestions. Make healthy choices.

posted June 6, 2021 (edited)
A myHIVteam Member

Pack your bags and start your life in the Sunshine state... Get your life in order and if after a while you are still smitten by "W", invite him to move down.. Now, a relationship with a bi could be tricky and you could be second plate and not first choice. 😁

posted June 11, 2021
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posted June 7, 2021
A myHIVteam Member

I would advise you not to jump into that right away you have to take your time with that because it's your heart and you are still healing and you need time.keep in touch with him though he could be the right one but you have to really get to know him.i also think of your safety you just think you know someone and you may not know them at all.but prayers too my friend and good luck also in the chase

posted June 7, 2021

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