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Telling Kids About HIV

A myHIVteam Member asked a question 💭
Chicago Heights, IL

This is something that I have been wanting to tell my oldest neice and nephew as they are rapidly getting to that age where they might experiment with sex. Any help on this matter would be appreciated 😀

February 20, 2019
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Members offered thoughtful guidance on how to talk with young relatives about HIV, with the overwhelming consensus being to consult the... Read more

Members offered thoughtful guidance on how to talk with young relatives about HIV, with the overwhelming consensus being to consult the children's parents first, respect boundaries around personal disclosure, and focus on comprehensive sexual health education rather than just HIV status. Several members shared their own experiences, including talking openly with nephews and sons during their teenage years, addressing both disease prevention and pregnancy precautions, and gradually introducing age-appropriate information starting with blood safety before moving into sexual transmission. A recurring theme was balancing the desire to protect and educate young people with respecting parental authority, maintaining personal privacy, and recognizing that today's youth are often more informed and accepting than previous generations.

A myHIVteam Member

Please remember that it is your RIGHT by law to confidetality...it is one thing telling a family member, it is way another for that information to get shared...be smart as to who and what you tell. Its your right of privacy.

February 20, 2019
A myHIVteam Member

There are so many places that do an HIV and STI complete education which is a great place to start then giving them advice on how a loving relationship makes sex special. I used to do that kind of complete education and it's good because all the questions get answered clinically, then the family gets to tell them their take on how sex should be handled.

February 21, 2019
A myHIVteam Member

I told my son early on in my diagnosis kinda felt like I had to because he couldn’t understand why I was breaking up with his dad in the middle of his illness. It didn’t make sense to him. Once I knew my status and was informed I sat down with him and told him what was happened and why I wasn’t being supportive of his father. I still feel I didn’t do this right but with my daughter I’m telling her as she begins to ask about reproductive health and as she is older. She’s only 9 now. My son was 16 when I told him

February 20, 2019
A myHIVteam Member

I talked with my nephew when he was in his teens. I then talked openly with his son, my great grand nephew, with my nephew and his wife's approval. Like I read here early how kids today know ay more and start way younger than we or even our kids did. I think an overview of all sexually transmitted diseases as well as safer sexpractices for all of them!! Not just disease but pregnancy precautions ~!!

February 20, 2019
A myHIVteam Member

Check with the parents first and get their ideas. You may not have to disclose your status. Just have the sex talk with them and educate them on HIV/AIDS. They may not want to know your status depending on how close you are to them. Tread lightly on that subject I made that mistake with my niece now she won't disquest HIV with me sometimes what kids dont know about us is best at a certain age

February 20, 2019

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