Have You Ever Felt Preyed Upon By Someone HIV Neg On A Poz Dating Site/support Group. Is It Ok To Ask A Social Media Friend For Money?

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Ok so this just happened and it makes me so mad that people think it's ok to Prey on men and women with HIV seriously! This woman messaged me on Facebook I somehow became friends with her through a World AIDS group on Facebook anyway she asked me for $100 and I politely explained that I lived on what might seem like a lot of money to someone in an impoverished nation but that it barely makes ends meet and that I support myself and my child on a very small amount of money by myself and it was not ok to ask me for money EVER she responded by sending me a full nude photo of herself with an invitation to well you can guess the nasty reply that would accompany a pic like that  and then she ended by calling my daughter a Bastard. Is it just me or have you all come across these scammers that think we are so lonely and loved starved that we will do anything if they tell us they love us and want to have a life with us Really? After 2 whole emails we're in love what makes me the most mad is some really nice guys I have known have actually sent some of these predators  money

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@A myHIVteam Member yes this has happened I have a straight HIV pox group on Facebook where I aw quickly kick out predators or stalkers or non pox persons its USA only I've found many other countries not naming any prey on USA HIV positive PERSONS

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Wow, and, I went on the poz site to find friends, and maybe more, I received a couple of flirts, one person said they was bisexual, and could I text him and be friends, I texted him and was having a good conversation when out of the blue he started talking about he was a nudist, I said cool I don't discriminate against color, religion, or sex, then he said he loved his mom and sister so much that he had 7 kids by each of them, and said he got his 5 daughters pregnant also, and then he sent me a d##k pic, so I reported him to pop, hopefully they will block he off the site, so do Ppl pray on us because of our health problems or do they think we're just do anything to get Ppl attention

A myHIVteam Member · Answer

I have had this approach by supposed soldiers in Iraq. I would immediately delete them.

A myHIVteam Member · Answer

@A myHIVteam Member Was that weirdo from like New York State or somewhere out east because I think that I talked to the same guy he said that he was having incestuous relationships with his mother and sister and that he had children with both of them and that he sexually assaulted the children too he talked about it as if it was just fine and dandy I thought he was making it up at first and I talked to him for probably longer than i should because I just couldn't believe anyone could be so cavalier about incest and honestly the incest was the rarest thing he claimed to be into  Scary to think he might be real and all that stuff he said might be true so SCARY

A myHIVteam Member · Answer

Actually I think they are more like a useless waste of human flesh to tell the truth since they want to get something for nothing from folks that can ill afford to live from day to day !

A myHIVteam Member · Answer

I don’t think it is ever ok, attempting to emotionally take advantage of someone. I have had this happen several times on Gay dating sites.and asked if I had a saving account.

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