I am Tired of being Single and decided not to date Anyone unless I disclose my Status. Is it hard for anyone else when it comes to Dateing & Discloser! My entire family knows but I never yet had to disclose because I've just been single
Absolutely! But it's a must! I have a motto "it's not what you say but how you say it" timing is important also. But there is someone for everyone . Don't get discouraged if someone rejects or steps away, because just like it scared the crap out of us when we were told we were positive...those that aren't educated are REALLY SCARED, don't lose hope. Im married and my spouse is not positive.
When you meet someone that you really like and he likes you it will be easy,,, You willl work it out if you are positive and he is negative. We have been doing it for 28+ years.....
I agreed that you should keep it secret for the first date. For the second date, you should tell your partner. If it is acceptable, your relationship can move on. It's not always the case that HIVers have to date with HIVers.
just roll the dice. I've disclosed to chase people away and it hasn't worked
Dont feel like you have to put it out there on the first date or anything. but if things start to get more serious then its time. I was terrified of this too but it went really well and now we have been together for 18 years. As long as you use protection the risk is almost none. You can still get married.. have children and a normal full life.