1989 I gave up all hope & by early 90s trying to meet other POZ, it just made me give up more because they all passed too fast, I completely gave up. I did wife/kid thing with a POZ lesbian, but because HIV was not tolerated in USA (was a HIV travel ban, wasn't even allowed to visit family) I lived there illegally. FInally I had something in my life to distract me, but I was deported and not allwoed back, so the hope thing is so hard to get back and I know I am tired of waiting to die like I did… read more
Hello just saying hello to you and hope your day is going well
I have been through the worst of the AIDS crisis (early 90s POZ guys I met died as fast as I could meet), I have had rocks thrown at me in small towns to rid of me (stigma was rampant), I survived but feel guilty for living, I turned my back on POZ people in the 90s because I couldn't watch them die anymore, so much guilt over the years.
Now I feel no one gets me, guys I meet now have been POZ maybe 5 years, they don't get it. NEG guys get mad at me for giving my POZ blood brothers first dibs… read more
Hi I add you to my team .Yes I read what you wrote too . I had that in early 90's after I meet guys in a rap group of Aids and HIV. Most all of them died so I want too .I got depressed about it… read more
@ DaveyBoy CONGRATS!
Got blood results from my HIV doc the other day and they were surprising. I guess we kind of take it for granted we will have an undetectable viral load not having one so many years. But when you do it kind of freaked me out. The weird thing is my CD 4 count was over 1,000. He is going to retake the test. Hopefully a glitch. But if not he will be changing my meds.
Anyone else have a detectable viral load or have one come and go? Just wondering?
I wish you good luck. I think most the time anymore that if you come back being detectable the norm is to get retested. I have had this happen to me 5 times since I was diagnosed with AIDS.and every… read more
Do I have to disclose my status even if I am undetectable and use protection.?
My opinion on this is a big YES. Because the TRUTH always comes out in the end . If rejected then you don't want that kind of a person anyway, their loss
If you are the " one hit wonder" type then… read more
Thank you Paris 2
Well I got my test results back viral load. was 40 now 30. Cd 4 count was 653 now 653 I thought it would get higher. Cd4 cd 8 ratio 1.98 only thing out of range but just by a little was alkaline phosphates at 128 does anyone know what that is? All in all am I doing good with these numbers for being on meds for almost a year? Thanks
New studies have shown that even low levels of DETECTABLE viral load is still untransmittable.
I’m so confused on what is considered undectable. First I hear 200 or under was considered undectable,then they came out with other sensitive tests that say under 50 is undectable. Now it’s under 20. What’s next another sensitive viral load test that measures under 10. So confusing. I’m at 40 am I considered undectable with a 657 cd 4 count? My doctor says I’m doing fine but that doesn’t answer the question any thoughts?
Brad3 thanks for hug here and here is hug back
At first I thought this was it. But after I found this site I discovered lots of people who have been battling this disease. My name is ernest and this is my 6th year fighting. How about you???
U work hard at helping & i have watched for years when i pop in..always positive...
I usually have bloodwork every 6 months as I have been stable and undetectable on my medications for many years now. My last bloodwork showed a small uptick in my viral load - still undetectable but a small increase. My doctor said that it may be that the Dovato is no longer working as well as it should since it only contains 2 antivirals instead of 3 as all other HIV meds do. Has anyone else had this same experience while taking Dovato - and did you have to change meds?
I just had a blip 2 labs ago showing I was detectable but viral load still low. That day when I got my labs I was really sick, so sick I should have stayed home. But it was the only day I had… read more