It’s hard but as long as you take your meds everything will be ok. You can’t live in fear all the time. That will put a wedge between you and your partner. To be safe have them to use prep. Set… read more
I’m looking to exchange some suggestions on the best way to disclose your poz status on Grindr, Growlr and scruff etc. IF that is not your thing please don’t comment negatively. Move along. This is a discussion for those of us that do use such apps
I recently became fully Covid Vaccinated I am looking to slowly introduce other vaccinated sex partners back into my life
Last week I contacted a pre-HIV FWB and had a good experience disclosing my new status and it has encouraged me to open… read more
Hi good morning I understand. For me it just got old having to explain to every person who started showing interest I didn't wanna waste my time or theres so I usually dont go past a couple days… read more
I was talking to my therapist about HIV disclosure to potential sex partners and he told me about a organization that defends PLWH against prosecution
They have some good suggestions to help prove you disclosed your HIV status. But they admit it NO GUARANTEE even if you do everything correctly and tell your sex partners about your status that you won’t still be prosecuted
Here are some of the suggestions they gave on their websites:
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It is awkward, but having proof that… read more
Stay undetectable, also know the state laws
When I got infected it was put in a local paper my house got tared wife and kids went through hell I didn't care about anything anymore I became a sober drunk just wanted to die and I did dam doctors… read more
If youre undetectable, why?
If you dont it can be legal. I dont see a reason to disclose to 1 date wonders if we dont get jiggy but yes, always before sex. How would you feel if the situation was reversed? Any relationship needs… read more
I live in a under-educated part of the country, where if you are honest you are typically shunned. As long as they don't know, all seems to be well. Ignorance is indeed bliss.
I find that at 56 I have become completely comfortable with the man I am and with what I need from a mate. It seems that this clarity coupled with my status creates a very difficult set of circumstances which makes meeting someone both compatible and mutually attracted even harder.
Anyone else experience similar… read more
Yes, but that ok I guess
For those of you who have disclosed your status to your family, how did you do it and how did they take it?
For those of you who have not, why not?
When I told friends one disappeared and a few distanced themselves after attempting to console me, 2 stuck around and educated themselves. This made me feel like it's a burden at first. I did tell my… read more
Whether you are recently diagnosed or a long-term Survivor, we always remember the first time we hear the words, "you are HIV positive"
Do you remember?
My 2nd. thought was I’m going to die, how long do I have left?
I want to know, are people really disclosing each and every time they have sex. I was talking to my ex last week and he gave me the impression at least people in his circle of friend do not disclose their HIV status when having encounters or relationships. The discussion started because I had mentioned that I was interested in sleeping with someone that I have a casual thing with but we haven't had the talk and I was thinking about not pursuing it any further. He seriously made me feel dumb… read more
Live life like normal
Hi Paris I'm good thanks
Thank you for your words they mean a lot in each an everyone of us whether you Hiv negative or positive
Have a blessed Sunday