Most the time when guys find out I am poz and top they freak out. I have had we can date but no sex. Some will ghost me. Some are just cruel. They get past the part I am fat, got mental disorders, and addict. I have even asked me how long I have to live.
I've gotten that too and been in recovery for 15 years.
If it's any consolation, I have chosen the wrong guy four times and I am 57 years old... they've all been long-term relationships and now at this age of my life, I have finally met someone who I really love and who loves me. He's negative but then again I never saw status as a qualifier for dating. Don't give up. It is better to have loved then not to have loved at all. you never know where , when, who and how you will meet your next partner and at what age of your life will you finally find love❤️🧡💛💚💙💜♥️ hugs.
Don’t get discouraged, those guys don’t realize what there missing, the right guy is out there looking for you
Usually by the time that I start dating a person. We already know the status of each other. I make a rule not to date anyone that's not comfortable with my HIV status. I'm very open about it I dont want to kill our 1st date with a wonderful guy because of HIV