I am worth loving, so yes, someone will get to know me and love me just as I am. I try to steer clear a people who are overly judgemental both in their own lives and about our society as a whole. Sure cuts out a lot of negativity even though it's a slightly more lonely life to live that way. I work in retail so I get my fix of people everyday. Also I will not get involved with anyone who doesn't accept me as I am. I have spent over 65 years trying to be while I thought other people wanted me to be all. That finally brought me to the conclusion that very few people knew me as I really am and whose fault was that? Mine. So to wrap it up I try to be as open accepting and honest as I can be and I expect no less from someone who I will love & will love me in return.
The way i carry myself matters most.If i take care of myself well i don't see why someone can't love me even after noticing am hiv pos.My healthy my every day smile and the way i treat myself i think those are important.
I have a long distance relationship with my bf. He is way younger and also wiser. He stuck with me and he is the first to see my labs every month after me. He encourages me to take my medicine and wants to be the first to find things out.
Just because I have HIV does not mean I am not lovable. Hell I'm positive because I'm so lovable.
I have struggled with this question for many years. I felt dirty and “unlovable” for many years after being diagnosed. While I’m going to struggle with these feelings for the rest of my life, I’m definitely healing and making progress thanks to my therapist and all of the work I’m doing on myself. For the first time in my life (even when I was HIV negative) I’m truly feeling worthy of love. I actually feel excited about being loved. I know that I have so much to offer my future partner and all of the good things outweigh my positive status.
We are ALL worthy of love, no matter what is going on in our lives.
not always @A myHIVteam Member. if you put effort into something you put the time in. but you can put time into something, but not the effort.