I really try to be honest with people on these sites and yet all that I have been getting is those people who are con-artists. Most of the people I look at are people who want people who are negative (DD free). My viral load is undetectable and I take my meds regularly.
Are you going to stay single the rest of your life?
@michaeleven, if you wish to change up your date, you can check out http://www.gayforit.eu lol It's free.
Maybe I'm being naive but I don't associate my trouble in meeting nice guys on dating sites with the fact that I'm HIV positive. I have a rather negative View of the dating sites even the one called compatible partners, which is owned by E Harmony; it's there stab at trying to tap into the gay Market especially since they took a rather decisive stand against being involved in anything gay originally.
I found the guys near my age or even a little younger to be Justice bad as they are in the bars. Of course internet dating allows guys and girls to catfish someone fairly easily- supplying someone else's picture for example or lying about their work etc etc. I haven't really met anyone who am I have added to my circle of friends let alone a boyfriend. Thought I came close once chatted with a guy for probably two weeks three or four times a day we were really hitting it off had the same beliefs about religion work etc so finally I pushed him to set a date for us to meet and since we're 45 minutes apart I need your I was going to be at a time when I didn't have to be concerned with work. Turns out I didn't have to be concerned at all; he stood me up. When I contacted him the next day hey hog all sorts of excuses but basically tried to turn the tables I'm because I seem to be coming down on him for him not following through.
One thing therapy has taught me is that I used to be susceptible to easy manipulation from the people I cared about. Well, that shit is over. LOL.
hey people have a hard time dating even if they aren't hiv+ trust me nobody is serious and if u hear of some long time couples some are doing the open relationship stuff, i know i have a couple of friends they have been together for 15 yrs and they both have sex with others. i dont judge and its their life, and it aint no different in being straight and married lol
Thank you all for the hugs!!!!!