It's been three years since my diagnosis and I'm still struggling there are days when I wake up and just feel so numb that I can't even cope. My partner who is hiv negative is also struggling with my diagnosis. He is shutting me out and won't speak about it. He says he wants to stay but I see there's a part of him that looks like he wants to run for the hills. Any suggestions how to have the conversation with him and how we can move forward? And also should I see the doctor about my emotions as… read more
@A myHIVteam Member Yes, please talk to your doctor about the emotional issues you're feeling. He/she may suggest a counselor of some kind, which may help a great deal. As for your first question, as a suggestion. This may not work for your situation, but couple counseling may help as well. It will start by you both coming to speak to someone separately so you both can air out your concerns and issues.Then start come together to share those concerns so you both can hopefully be on common ground for your relationship.
If you have a religious background for the both of you, speaking to your clergy may help if you feel more comfortable.There are support groups for couples in your situation that may help. Sometimes hearing from other couples that are going/ gone through what you both are dealing with right now can help as well. I hope these ideas can help you both in this difficult time.
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yes you should talk to your doctor about how you feel, even if you think it is too personal. sometimes the way you feel can interact with your medication.